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Thank you for this. Yes I am looking into evaluations. I might consider some depression too if I were reading this cold but I know myself and I am not depressed nor do I have mental health issues. I am simply parenting a very difficult daughter. [b]My mom, mil, and sil (both my mom and sil are BPD) are all very intense personalities so I think it’s just the genetic lottery. I would do back to work but for my two very chill, pleasant sons ages 2 and 7. I don’t want to be away from them. [/b]I love being a sahm. It’s just a mismatch of our personalities and I need help. Badly. [/quote]
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Two thoughts. Why don’t you have your daughter stay with your mother or MIL for a week? It would give you a break and it would give your daughter the experience of living in a loving home. And don’t think your daughter hasn’t picked up on the fact you love her brothers more than her. It’s probably making her more desperate for your attention which is pissing you off more and creating a vicious cycle. Sending your daughter away may help break that cycle. Someone upthread suggested family therapy but you reject that anything is wrong with you.[/quote]

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