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[quote=Anonymous]OP:  I’m the mom of the two autistic kids.  I didn’t mean to suggest that you were depressed as in having a mental illness.  But you do sound tired and burned out with your daughter, and your frustration tolerance with her is clearly low.  It sounds like a hard situation for you, her and everyone.

Please prioritize looking into an evaluation for her.  She may just be challenging because she is, but there’s also a good chance she needs some expert intervention.  I’m assuming she’ll be in school full time next year, and the sooner you get a handle on what’s causing her needs the better.

My guess is you’re not a perfect parent.  I’m not.  Nor are most of us.  And behaviorally challenged kids can bring out the worst in us.  (I’ve had some moments I’m not proud of.). But understanding your kids is the first step in helping them.  And for me, learning why my kids were prone to meltdowns, couldn’t follow directions, etc., has certainly helped me have compassion for them—even during their most challenging moments l.

Good luck.  And hang in there.[/quote]

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