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[quote=Anonymous]I would try to meet in the middle - it’s an easier clear rule to say no photos on social media (though I do think your in laws will be bummed to not be able to share their joy in that way and that’s ok, we all have our way of sharing those types of things and it’s ok for them to be disappointed but you’re also not responsible for their feelings).  But not allowing them to text photos to friends seems harsh not very thoughtful. You haven’t had your child yet so maybe you’ll understand this better once they are here but this is the child of their own child, who their heart could literally explode with love for. To say they can’t share the joy of their first grandchild in a way we have done for many years (sharing a picture, yes before it was in your wallet, but what do you really think their friends are doing with the photo that is concerning to you?) is pretty rough and will cause hurt. That seems a happy more reasonable medium. Remember you are modeling for your child in how you manage this relationship with your in-laws. Boundaries are good but it’s also good to model thoughtfulness of everyone’s needs and perspectives. And compromise.

I will also say I’ve yet to see a friend stick with it past age 3-4 unless they are not really on social media themselves. If they are active themselves they just eventually I think can’t stand the cuteness of their child enough to share :) (those that were hesitant at first usually just do insta stories since they “go away” for example) I would set some boundaries but also be flexible and not make this a huge battle because your feelings may change over time. [/quote]

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