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[quote=ZachF][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Initiate BJs frequently-don't make him ask
Have his back
Don't talk so much
Cook his favorite foods once in a while
Don't be predictable
Don't put on weight or let yourself go

It's pretty simple really[/quote]

Got it.  So simple.  Thanks.

Now I realize how so many women focus on the lower important things like cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids, socializing, and mental load of all of those items.  As long as men take care of those items in the marriage, your list is good to go.[/quote]

That is my list and if you are looking for an argument, you won't get one from me.  You are not wrong.  Those things you mention are ALL LOWER IMPORTANCE to you marriage.  And they can wait.  Sure, kids need to be taken care of.  It's not mutually exclusive to being a good wife to your husband.    Cooking, cleaning, other domestic duties?  He is just as capable and, on any given day, they can wait or be outsourced.  We negotiate those things all the time and in sexy ways.  Hey, I tall you what, you cook tonight and I'll do the dishes and while I'm doing that, if you can do..... we can carve out some time for that thing we've been texting about today.  Said by either of us to the other.  You make it work.

And unless you are really short on plates, the dishes can sit another day.  Start those kids doing dishes by at least age ten, if not sooner.  Same for teaching them to cook simple things.[/quote]

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