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[quote=Anonymous]I am not sure. It helps we are both pretty easygoing and that we trust each other. Rather than making up my mind and then ramming my decision through, we talk things over together and arrive at a consensus. It probably helped that we met when we were relatively young (I was 22).

The other thing is, if I'm upset, I get quiet, mull things over, and figure out what's bothering me, and what I should do about it, instead of exploding on him. (And he is like that too.) Most of the time, I figure out a solution without ever having a big fight about it. I just learned at some point, in other relationships, and from my parents' bad marriage, that complaining and demanding things never actually works. If I want something, I figure out how reasonable my want is, and if it is, how to incentivize my DH to make it happen, and it works way more effectively.

Also, I don't emotionally dump on him. I have the Internet for that. :)

But also, he's a great guy, very involved in home life (maybe even more so than me), so I forgive him the occasional clutter and other little minor annoyances. :) [/quote]

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