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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are people suggesting living with her father? You all don't know anything about her father except that he divorced her mother and doesn't have custody of her. I agree that her stepfather is out of line here, and her mother needs to step up and be a mother (not just a wife). But, sometimes you just need to learn how to deal with difficult people. The stepfather isn't going to change and the mother doesn't have a backbone. The only thing OP can do is keep her room clean, focus on her academics and extracurricular activities and prepare to go to college in a few years. This is small in the universe of teen troubles.[/quote] WTF? No. I’ve been in a similar situation, albeit different, my step father didn’t snoop, etc. Regardless, OP will have to dig heels in. Hold on to her common sense and instinct. Push back against claims she’s overreacting. My mother always said that too. . I advise OP to bypass her weak mother, and go straight to her step father. Lay down the law. He would probably be happy for OP to leave and have his wife all to himself. Do everything you can to get to college. It will save you! Build close relationships with friends and their families. You should have other adults you can rely on and who know your situation. [/quote]
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