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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait until you find someone you lust after and keep it to yourself. Then you can smile all day long and he will be none the wiser. [/quote]

OP here.  I agree with this.  I am playing the long game.  He thinks I am interested in reconciling.  We have our nice talks and talk about the future going forward.  He is being super nice and caring.  But I know it is all BS.  He is a selfish entitled man child and no longer the person I fell in love with. He is scared to death to look bad in front of his kids, friends, and colleagues and losing a big chunk of money. It is going to be fun exposing him for the fraud that he is.[/quote]

Here’s the thing. It can be fun and cathartic to think about “exposing” him to everyone, but I’d advise you to think long and hard about the actual implications of that. First of all none of his coworkers will care, unless he had an affair with someone he supervises, and even then - would you want to risk him losing his job and your kids’ financial security? Friends don’t want to know the details of your marriage and they might wind up judging YOU. You really open yourself up to criticism or the sad truth that no one really cares as much as you do. Telling your kids is a stupid idea for obvious reasons.

It just isn’t going to be the big blowup you imagine where you look like the good one. [/quote]

Totally agree with this.  One of my business partners ex wife sent a company wide email about his cheating and the universal consensus was she looked crazy and it created a bit of empathy for him[/quote]

lol
Now you know that isn't true.

Most will talk among themselves: "yep we knew Harold was a dirt bag, poor wife and kids". [/quote]

Yeah, no, honey. In your dreams.[/quote]

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