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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been where you are.  In the end though I think it ended up being a combo revenge/exit affair.  My ex cheated on me for a year with his married mistress.

The OW's husband is the one that told me about the affair.  He hired a PI so there was no doubt what happened.  We both were very hurt and feeling really vengeful.  It did not hurt that the OW's husband is gorgeous.  I could not understand how she could cheat on him with my husband.

At first we told ourselves we were only communicating to keep tabs on our spouses but it did not take long before we had a full blown affair.  When our spouses found out it was messy and ugly.

We turned into liars and cheats just like our spouses.  I promised my H I would end my affair.  We would end it for a day or two and pick up right where we left off and get busted again.

I could look my then H straight in the eye and tell him I was not seeing the OM and lie through my teeth with no guilt.  I would also remind my H about his own affair and not to give me a hard time.  Because of his own A my ex thought he deserved whatever I dished out and took it and kept after me to end my affair.

We both did leave our spouses and then our spouses turned down right nasty.  I think if I had left right after I found out about his affair the divorce would have been much more simple.  My ex was so angry with me.  He cussed me out in court and tried hiding our assets.  A divorce that could have been finalized in 6 months dragged on for 18 months.

The OM divorce dragged on but was final in less than a year.  His wife put him through the ringer too.

We stay in a relationship and even moved in together.  We were so busy with our careers and fighting our spouses for a divorce it was hard to have a "real" relationship with so much conflict going on in our lives and not spending a whole lot of time together.

We last another year after my divorce was finalized.  We did not have a lot in common for a life long relationship and decided to end it.  It was a very friendly breakup and we are still friends.

I would never advise anyone to have a revenge affair.  I cannot tell you enough to end your relationship with your husband and start over on a clean slate.[/quote]

I’d like to buy the movie rights to this piece of fiction. [/quote]

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