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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Because I own the place where we live[/quote]

Oh NOW you tell us the important point

Op, if you're going to hide details from us, give us only select details, you lose our help[/quote]

[b]I keep repeating that it's not about the logistics.  It's not about who moves out.  [/b]I expressed to him that I think it's best if we separate (and for him to move out) and he completely ignores this and pretends everything is ok.  I feel like I live in some twilight zone.  I feel like nothing I say has an impact on him.  I said this not to get a reaction out of him.  I meant it.  I thought he would recognize the pain in my voice and in my face when I was saying it.  But I guess I was wrong.  [/quote]

You keep saying that, and you keep being wrong.  You're married, and you can't force him to leave.  If you feel it is crucial to live in separate homes, you apparently have to be the one to leave.  It stinks, but there it is.  [/quote]

Yes.  He doesn't need to change, because doing what he is doing is working for him.  You want him to care about your pain; about what you say, and he has made it clear he does not.  Either come to peace with that, or make changes yourself.  Since he is happy pretending that nothing is wrong, he isn't going to move out.  So you have to either move out, or file the papers what will eventually allow you to get him out (though you weren't clear about how you protected your house so that it is still only yours).[/quote]

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