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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really confused as to why you feel so entitled? What on earth makes you feel that you can demand that he move out? Girl, you must have tripped and bumped your head.[/quote]

Because I own the place where we live. I owned it before we got married and will continue to own it if and when we divorce. He knows that and does dispute that he is the one that needs to move. My question wasn’t about the logistic, but about him completely ignoring a very serious problem we have and acting like everything is normal and well.[/quote]

Even if you owned the place before marriage, he has a good reason not to leave, unless you had no mortgage for the duration of the marriage, no marital funds went into the upkeep, maintenance or improvements to the house and you had a prenuptial that designates that the house was solely yours and that he would not be entitled to any ownership or profit for the house.  If you had a mortgage or he paid for upkeep, maintenance or significant improvement to the house without a prenuptial, then he has a financial claim to half of the investment into the property during the marriage.  And if he moves out, it could be consider grounds for him abandoning his investment into the house.  So, with no paperwork, no divorce proceedings and no claims, he should not move out.  Start divorce proceedings so that his lawyer can do discovery of financial information and determine what his profit from the house he is due and then he can move out.  If you force him out, it can look as if you are trying to cheat him out of any financial portion of the house that he is otherwise entitled to.  Until then the best bet is to have him move into the guest room.[/quote]

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