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[quote=Anonymous]These ppl are dumb ignore them OP, they’re gaslighting you like your husband. When I was on maternity leave, I did everything and was a tornado aka no downtime at all. When baby slept I cooked dinner eat wash bottles and pump. Any moment baby is relaxing or sleeping is used to reset things and wash things. Sure I could be a lazy bum and just let things be and expect someone to do it at the end of the day while I do the bare minimum during the day. It’s BS, and I experience it too when my husband watches our son, I have more work to do when I get back than if I hadn’t left. So what’s left to do? The answer is nothing, you wanna get stuff done and do it right, you do it yourself. I’ve given up reminding husband about bottles and clothes and dishes and I just do it. Sometimes as I’m on my 5th bottle washing with 3 different brushes I tell him sure could have used the help here. He does nothing, at least I got out my feelings. Like a pp said, it’s a FACT husbands do less or don’t do it right. [/quote]

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