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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks again for all of the insight, especially from women.  Especially those who had similar situations. That helps a lot.

As for autism, I have thought about that as well.  Early on, after I'd have conversations with her at work, she'd often send me e-mails right after excitedly thanking me for the conversation.  Who does that?  I think to her it was a safe way of expressing interest.

As for the smoothing out of clothes, I kind of just chalk this up to the subconscious primping and preening that a person interested in someone does.  And a way for her to highlight her body to get me to look at it.  The same way she'd often stand up when she saw me coming.

When I asked her out and she thought I was implying to be a couple right away, in my efforts to clear it up, I told her that if she was ever interested, I'd let her set the pace.  But she probably is still struck with fear that I'll just go after sex.  And I'm much going after a relationship at this point.

But yeah, for my best interest, I have backed off and haven't seen or contacted her for two weeks now.  I don't have time for this, especially when she might never come around.  And there are other new options I am now pursuing.

Thanks again for the input.  I'm kind of sad for her.  There is no way even the most introverted and independent person can be completely happy going through life alone.  I know this is especially worse for a lot of women.  I hope that she can work through whatever she has to be willing to form a romantic bond with someone.
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