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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Might she be on the autism spectrum? Females are good at hiding it and blending in. Regardless, I don’t know that it’s an attachment issue — sounds more like anxiety, which can manifest itself in many different ways.[/quote]

Just to add - another reason i thought of HFA is that asking you to come by her office to see her dress is somewhat odd behavior, particularly in the absence of a relationship. She can’t bring herself to give you her number or stay at an event for longer than 5 minutes but regularly asks you to come see her dress. To the point that when she sees you approsxhing, she “smooths out her dress” for you. Yes, that’s quite strange.

But regardless, she seems to have severe relational anxiety, and that’s not sustainable. Especially if you want more than email correspondence. She just can’t do it. Maybe in a year she’ll be able to tolerate 8 minutes. and in five years it’ll be 20 minutes...but you’ll be 46 by then.

You can keep her as a friend but let go of any romantic expectations. She’s not capable, OP.[/quote]

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