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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d promptly ban the whole lot of them from this and every future event at my house. And don’t blame the poor allergic girl. This is squarely on them for being batsh!t crazy.[/quote]

This.  The three relatives you describe sound awful. The aggressive one with the nippy dog, the entitled aunt who think she can muscle her dog into your house by threatening she will bill you for damage her dog does and her own home (wtf!?), and the guy who mansplains to you about dogs.  They all sound awful and frankly, assuming they follow your directive (which I would not count on, so you better have a plan) they are going to show up at your home and be terrible, passive aggressive guests. You can count on it.  I think you should strongly encourage those three families to decline the party,  and if they don’t start backing down in their harassment of you you might want to consider directly disinviting them.  I don’t think you’re going to miss them.  And OP,  I love how strong and direct you are. However, these are all your husband’s family, correct? Why isn’t he the primary voice setting the rules for his family? It sounds like you’ve been left to be the enforcer and if that’s the case I don’t think that’s quite right or fair. but more power to you! And yeah, while your niece might have allergies don’t let yourself fall into the trap of “blaming and “it all on her. These relatives need to be called out for their mingboggling rude behavior.[/quote]

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