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Reply to "If your family/friends/coworkers bad mouth your spouse "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he is using "other people" to tell you how he views you and/or to make a comment/start an argument. He is basically saying that these people think this way about you so you should feel bad and do better. Its passive-aggressive, manipulative, and abusive. [/quote] +100[/quote] This is so true. There are no other people. He’s doing this to hurt you. [/quote] He is 100% trying to hurt you. That is really messed up. Noone deserves to be treated like that. Probably one person said you were "quiet" once and they might not have meant anything bad. Like "oh your wife is so quiet I hope we weren't being too obnoxious and loud!" I could see myself saying that b/c I can be too loud. And he took that and weaponized it against you. That's something my abusive ex used to do- criticism of me through what "everyone" says about me. Guess what- he was lying. [/quote]
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