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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who is in his shoes, I fault the guy tremendously for participating in that article, which clearly accomplishes nothing but cause his ex more pain and embarrassment.   I also believe that the guy’s decision to put his kids in a conservative Christian school and allowing them to be raised thinking the way they did was unforgivable.

Having said that, the reactions of many of the women on this thread to the article confirms my decision never, ever to come out at this point.  With each passing day one becomes more and more boxed into what was a stupid decision made years ago - while young, hopeful, and naive - but certainly was not a decision made maliciously or with any intent to hurt or mislead.

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I feel for you, genuinely I do. But you knew you were conflicted and made decisions to go ahead and closet yourself and fully embrace the straight life. You made your bed, now you have to lie in it. You don’t get to blow up everyone else’s lives in order for you to feel good about yourself. I had some secrets going into my own marriage, and they’re mine to deal with, not my spouse and children. Once you enter into a family collective unit, you don’t get to think about your own “self-actualization” or whatever BS term is out there now. If when your children are fully grown you want to consider divorce, then maybe. [/quote]

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