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Reply to "Men want sex for Father’s Day? How many women want sex for Mother’s Day?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. in a typical [b]I am high drive she is low drive, what happened to the sex and why is my wife never in the mood anymore type marriage[/b]. Yes, what I want more than anything for father's day, birthday, and any holiday is special lingerie and sex night. My wife is SAHM, there isn't anything I can't realistically afford and it's the one gift I crave from her. It didn't happen last night but she also thinks it's weird that is a father's day thing.[/quote] Your wife is a normal woman being a normal woman and struggling with monogamy more than you are. Long term relationships are hard on desire, but especially hard on FEMALE desire—there are plenty of data on this. We need to revisit the stale AF and inherently sexist idea that women aren’t having sex because they don’t like sex. Data show it’s that they bore of partnered sex more quickly than men do. In the aggregate, they like sex, just not the sex they’re having. But this fact runs so contrary to our notion of who men and women are that we have a hard time taking it in.[/quote] Pp who you are responding to. I offered to open the marriage and she declined. So it sure doesn't seem we are equally motivated sexually. I am sure she is bored though, who isn't. [/quote]
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