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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few of my girlfriends love planning girl's weekends away, but I am just not that into it.  I hardly get to see my husband because he travels for work so much, and we haven't had a vacation alone without our kids in years.  If I'm going on vacation, I'd rather be with my husband (and be able to get frisky!- hehe!) then hang out with my ladies, who I see for dinner all the time.  Is this awful?[/quote]

It's not awful, but why haven't you been on a vacation, even a weekend away, with your husband in years?  That's a long time.[/quote]

NP - My husband and I didn’t get away alone for a good 10-12 years when our children were young and we didn’t live near any family. All of our sitters were too young to handle a long weekend and we did not want to have someone new. I’m sure we would have loved to get away and just be adults but we were happy. We definitely did not need to get away to have sex but as I have found since then a nice resort really increases my desire and energy. [/quote]

I just don't get this for 10-12 years...  Even if you don't live near family - are you talking like they all live in Australia?  Otherwise, is it not possible for any of them to travel to your kids or your kids to travel to them?  Or do you all never see each other, ever?  And all of your sitters were too young...if you wanted to get away you could have found an older sitter.  Maybe you just don't care about getting away, and that's fine.  I have no beef with you doing things your way.  I just don't get the people who complain about it and act like the rest of us have family nearby (I don't) or have a bevy of older sitters at our beck and call (I don't).  So, not trying to dog you, PP, just shocked that in 10-12 years you never got away.[/quote]

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