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[quote=Anonymous]Op finally back. It’s good to hear people’s perspecices and that others struggle with this. But for people saying to play to my strengths or to keep initiating, that’s the thing— initiating and organizing are not my strengths at all! I detest inviting people to anything because of the built in chance of rejection. If I just did what I were comfortable with, I’d do exactly what these other women are doing and just accept invites and never reciprocate. The only reason I have reached out since moving to this area is because if I never did I’d seemingly have no friends or acquaintances at all. I’m also never 100% sure whether other women have had a good time or felt they clicked with me. My biggest assurance of that is if they text or call me, or initiate meeting again. If they never do, how am I supposed to know if they are just bad a communication or whether they are ghosting me and hoping I catch on? [/quote]
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