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Reply to "Did you have any *unexpected* divorce regrets?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend recently put it this way: DH wants to live in squalor and chaos 100% of the time. I want to live in order and cleanliness 100% of the time. We can’t change each other, but we can separately get what we want. [/quote] What I would say to your friend: First reaction -- gee, wouldn't it have been nice to figure that out before you got married? Secondly, I doubt he [i]wants[/i] to live in squalor. He just doesn't care enough about order and cleanliness to do anything himself. He'd be willing to let you impose as much order and cleanliness as you like. But you don't want to do that. So the real problem... is you.[/quote]
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