Anonymous
05/21/2019 17:11
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:Is she really going out with him? Is she really going to take him home tonight?
Ha! Perfect!
Anonymous
05/21/2019 16:53
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:BDE
+1
Anonymous
05/21/2019 16:21
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
He offers something other than looks; she probably doesn't.
My assumptions: he's rich (or smart, powerful, fantastically funny, irreproachably decent, etc.) and shallow as a cookie sheet.
My assumptions: he's rich (or smart, powerful, fantastically funny, irreproachably decent, etc.) and shallow as a cookie sheet.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 16:09
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:When I was young, I was considered "stunning". Old men would hit on me, and very, ugly men. Never good looking (or even average) ones. Because of my looks, and my quiet nature, I was asked many times, "so what is wrong with you?", "how come you aren't taken?", etc...The only way I actually went out on a date was when girlfriends fixed me up. Luckily, my 3rd blind date married me within a year of meeting me. When he shows others our picture, he is always asked, how did you get her?
So if I see an average guy with a beautiful woman, I think:
He may be average looking, but I bet he is kind, doesn't play games, knows a good thing when he sees it, and has the confidence to go after what he wants.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 14:56
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
I think she may need glasses.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 14:52
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
When I was young, I was considered "stunning". Old men would hit on me, and very, ugly men. Never good looking (or even average) ones. Because of my looks, and my quiet nature, I was asked many times, "so what is wrong with you?", "how come you aren't taken?", etc...The only way I actually went out on a date was when girlfriends fixed me up. Luckily, my 3rd blind date married me within a year of meeting me. When he shows others our picture, he is always asked, how did you get her?
So if I see an average guy with a beautiful woman, I think:
He may be average looking, but I bet he is kind, doesn't play games, knows a good thing when he sees it, and has the confidence to go after what he wants.
So if I see an average guy with a beautiful woman, I think:
He may be average looking, but I bet he is kind, doesn't play games, knows a good thing when he sees it, and has the confidence to go after what he wants.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 09:55
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous
05/21/2019 09:55
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
You mean these two:
Anonymous
05/21/2019 09:49
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
I think that despite her hotness, she's at least partly crazy, and I feel bad for his having to put up with it. The Universal Hot Crazy Matrix never fails.
https://youtu.be/incSwssUyp4
https://youtu.be/incSwssUyp4
Anonymous
05/21/2019 08:46
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sometimes it’s money, but more often it’s a sense of safety and security. Women get a lot of cultural messaging around choosing the nerdy “nice” guy over the sexy “bad” guy. In reality, a lot of those sweet geeks are true assholes and the confident attractive guys have great personalities. Insecure beautiful women often can’t cope with someone on their level, especially if a less attractive man says and does all the right things at the beginning.
Let me guess, in this scenario you're the confident attractive guy with a great personality but the beautiful women won’t go for you. Have you tried being an ass hole? That’s definitely the type of guy I went for when I was younger. Then I realized that going for a nice guy is better. Nerdy or sexy doesn’t necessary correlate with nice or bad (I agree with you on that), there are plenty of sexy guys that are nice (my DH included IMHO). If that’s your profile then you’ll find the right girl soon enough. If not, you might not be as nice and attractive as you thought...
No, I’m a woman who got burned by sweet-seeming nerdy guys and never gave more attractive men a chance because of my own issues.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 07:50
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
She loves him.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 07:44
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:BDE
What is BDE?
Anonymous
05/21/2019 00:49
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
It’s gotta be the size of his.......uh......
Bank account.
Gotta be.
Bank account.
Gotta be.
Anonymous
05/21/2019 00:33
Subject: What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:Money
+1 - especially if there is an age gap. Sometimes if they are the same age I’ll give the benefit of the doubt and think high school/ college sweethearts if they give off that been together forever vibe,
Anonymous
05/21/2019 00:19
Subject: Re:What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes it’s money, but more often it’s a sense of safety and security. Women get a lot of cultural messaging around choosing the nerdy “nice” guy over the sexy “bad” guy. In reality, a lot of those sweet geeks are true assholes and the confident attractive guys have great personalities. Insecure beautiful women often can’t cope with someone on their level, especially if a less attractive man says and does all the right things at the beginning.
Let me guess, in this scenario you're the confident attractive guy with a great personality but the beautiful women won’t go for you. Have you tried being an ass hole? That’s definitely the type of guy I went for when I was younger. Then I realized that going for a nice guy is better. Nerdy or sexy doesn’t necessary correlate with nice or bad (I agree with you on that), there are plenty of sexy guys that are nice (my DH included IMHO). If that’s your profile then you’ll find the right girl soon enough. If not, you might not be as nice and attractive as you thought...