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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my first reaction was "what an entitled MIL", but after thinking about my own setup and reading responses i think you should chill out. It is obvious you don't like your MIL. Try to see her as your husband's mother. Don't make it into a competition between your mom and MIL. Your mom is able to help you that much and MIL is not, due to health reasons. But she still wants to spend time with her grandkids. Just see another mother in your MIL. See yourself in future. What if for some reason you can't physically help your DIL and she will prevent you from seeing your grandkids? Why don't you let her come visit for 2-3 days a month even if she parks herself in front of TV with the baby. And control yourself, stop yourself from being irritated by her presence. Try to see a friend in her. [/quote]
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