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Also, my [b]marriage has been pretty rocky[/b] since we had a baby and we have been on the [b]verge of divorce so many times. [/b][b]I lost a lot of love and respect for my husband. We are both trying to make this work for the sake of our kid. He is making a effort to try to become a better husband and especially a better father[/b], which is the reason why argue all the time. My mom doesn't know this part.  Hearing my mom talk about how he isn't a good son in law and how his side of the family suck is really affecting and influencing my feelings towards DH as well, which I know is not healthy at all. I'm trying my best to ignore her comments. Should I bring it up with DH at all or just keep it to myself? Is there anything I can say to my mom? My marriage is already weak as it is. [/quote]

This makes it sound like H cheated on you. You, your mom & H live in the same house. You're lying to yourself if you don't think they know there is tension between all parties. You argue all the time, but your mom doesn't know? K. I think she's wrong for bad mouthing your H, but it sounds like her protective instinct is coming out. What did your H do to you?

This is where it's time all grow up and act like adults. Have a real conversation about how you feel and what your expectations are. "Mom, I love you and know you want to protect me. H & I were in a rocky spot after the baby, but he loves me & we're trying to work it out. It doesn't help when you're negative. I do need your support and love you,. I can't tolerate putting down H's family to my children.  etc"

If she doesn't care to change the way she speaks about your H or to your kids, buh bye. Get a nanny.[/quote]

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