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[quote=Anonymous]I hate nursing homes and I am generally inclined to say yes on taking parents and in laws. But this is a hard pass. I too have 3 kids and we both work full time and no way would I take them in in your situation. The main problem here is that, if they live with you, they are your responsibility. You wil be heavily involved in your FILs care and bear all the consequences of his numerous issues. Oh, and when he passes it will be hard to kick out step MIL. It will be a totally different mindset, her expectations will change etc etc. so you will likely spend all of your kid years with heavily burdened by taking care of your in-laws. And that assumes that you can actually do it. But you can’t! Do not enter this arrangement as hard as it is not to move them in now it will be a million times harder when you try to get out of it. Give them money, rent them a different space, find another way to help. This will ruin you.[/quote]
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