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Reply to "At a loss- spouse openly disregarded my wishes on something"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And this is why DH and I each get a separate sum of money to do whatever we want with each paycheck. I would go crazy if I had to run everything by DH and he feels the same way.[/quote] This is just masking the issue at hand. [/quote] +1 This is what OP said: "Spouse wanted to buy something on impulse that I felt would be a huge time suck and would result in adding more to my overflowing plate because of the time commitment"[/quote] How would it be a huge time suck for her, if her spouse bought this thing? It might be a huge time suck for him. How is it a huge time suck for her?[/quote] Because if he's working on that instead of doing his fair share of childcare, chores, errands, etc., then she has to pick up the slack at the expense of any free time for herself.[/quote]
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