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Reply to "anyone drop the rope with their spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous]DH here and I find OP’s situation sad, especially for her children but also for herself and her DH. I made a choice to be as equally involved as my wife in the raising of our children, which admittedly came at the expense of career progression and money, but I have never regretted it and I know they are better for it. I also know one of the biggest gifts I have given them, particularly my son, is the example I set that hopefully he will be mimic for his children. I see so many fathers/husbands who work long hours and seldom see or are involved with their families and think that the one or two big vacations they go on a year are enough and make them a good father. What I know for sure is that our lives and our relationships with your children are built in the small moments. The memories my older kids talk about today are not the manufactured ones created by the big trips we took each year but rather the impromptu things that happened during my daily involvement with them - the bike rides and walks we took after work, playing in the creek, playing with the dogs, playing catch, playing board games after dinner, and on and on.[/quote]
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