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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Not wrong. It’s dishonest to marry a big earner, reap the benefits and then bail out of the agreement in the middle, causing tremendous family turmoil. 
At least wait until the kids are grown - it’s the respectable thing to do.[/quote]

Again, read the OP. It sounds like the balance of family life was discussed and OP was given the impression that the work intensity would die down, and it didn't. Perhaps she should have believed what she was seeing, rather than what he was saying. But for the love of God, drop the obsession with insisting that [b]women all marry for "big money". Most of us don't want to partner with wealthy, uninvolved men. Including OP.[/b][/quote]

But she definitely DID.

I did not. I have a husband who is around. We do not have interesting/pricey family vacations and many other things and in fact struggle to pay regular debts. It’s fine though. And it’s not like some utopia where I also then don’t have to also work to smooth things over between DH and the kids sometimes. A lot at some ages. All marriages and family relationships take work and compromise, not just yours. The grass is not greener. [/quote]

Having to do all the housework and even things like painting the house is not as rosy as it seems either, OP. Take your privilege where you can get it and enjoy it. [/quote]

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