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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a really good mother and I have never loved anyone as much as I love my son.  But I regret having him nearly every day.  His dad is a very different person than I believed before we were married; he did a great job of concealing his true self.  And since Trump has become President, he has felt much more empowered to be the sexist, racist POs I never knew he was.  I feel like a fool. I am a fool.  And at this point, not only am I not in a healthy marriage, I frankly wouldn’t even be Facebook friends with my husband if we didn’t share a child.  I feel utterly trapped.  On top of all that, my DH has substance abuse and anger issues, and he is vindictive when he thinks someone is imhis enemy, which divorce would immediately do.  No matter what path I choose, I have created a child into a very, very unhappy situation.-!: he is going to suffer from it.  Worst case scaneio, he may turn out like his dad. Best case, he will see two parents in a terrible relationship or terrible divorce, but he will come through it with empathy and kindness and sensitivity. But I am so, so sorry to have created a person with such a father and such an unhappy marriage.[/quote]

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