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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Better that he figure out what he wants to do, than to spend time and money on a graduate program that doesn’t suit him. [/quote] Yup. Spend some time working and then go back to school if it makes sense. [/quote] +1 He may have no idea how hard he’s going to have to work to replicate your lifestyle Or he may realize he doesn’t want to work that hard for a particular lifestyle. [b]What I wouldn’t do is support him in maintaining a nicer lifestyle than he can afford, unless you can guarantee that for the rest of his life (and possibly for any dependents of his). [/b] Doesn’t sound like you have that level of wealth, though. [/quote] +1 This is important; it's his life to sort out. If you paid for his education, you gave him a great gift. If you had a problem with his major, you should have said so upfront. [/quote]
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