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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP-Don't beat yourself up about this. There is an excellent chance your marriage is awful, and has been for years, because your husband is an ass. I have a very dear friend in a very similar situation. I hate it for her because she's beautiful, accomplished, and fun, and her husband is awful and doesn't appreciate her at all. They have young children and she'd be way worse off if they divorced because he'd be a nightmare to co-parent with and that would be awful for her kids. You needed a break from reality and you got it with the AP. It's totally normal to miss the "what if" more than the actual person. Give yourself a break and if needed find another AP to fill in the loneliness until you can get out of your marriage one day. Good luck OP![/quote]

You remind me of someone I know that is critical of the spouse and children of her “friends”.  She has tried to convince more than one “friend” to leave their spouse.   The reality is that she is the one in a miserable marriage, and is trying to bring her “friends” to her level. Not surprisingly, the critical comments she makes about others more accurately describe her husband and kids.  Misery loves company.[/quote]

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