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[quote=Anonymous]You need help with the daily clean-up so you can tackle the backlog of purging and organizing. I feel the same way picking up after my DH (inside-out socks, messy countertop in our shared bathroom, leaves empty soda cans and half-drunk glasses wherever he last left them) and our three teen/tweens. I have worked with an organizer who specially in "chronic disorganization" (yes, that is a NAPO categorization) to help me sort out the piles of gathered-up stuff when we host brunches and dinners, which then just sit where they landed in the room-that-shall-not-be-named. If you are local in DC, call Jill Lawrence at jillofalltradesdc.com. I took personal days from work so we could sort through things together. Yes, it is unreasonable for ANY couple to expect only one to do all the work, and to do so with no assistance. A competent couples counselor will help you and your DH to figure out which tasks you are each best suited to handle (grocery shopping, pet care, kids' baths, unloading the dishwasher etc). Good luck and hang in there! [/quote]
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