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[quote=Anonymous]Would this alone piss me off. No. BUT (and i assume OP is in this boat), if this was one of the million ways that DH refused to listen to me and actually hear what I am saying then yes, this would make me very hurt and frustrated. No one wants to go unheard and for their feelings to be disregarded. That is what this is about. her DH is finding pleasure in giving her something she clearly stated she does not want. yet she is the bad guy for not being grateful. Let me ask you this. If your boss asked you to NOT reorganize the company files by color but you did so anyway and even enlist coworkers to help you, would she be "You put so much time into that, thanks even though I specifically asked you to NOT do that. I appreciate it so much and love that you got everyone to waste their time on something I didn't want done" While a gift isn't a job task, it is the same thinking. If someone tells you they do NOT want A. How about not getting them A. [/quote]
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