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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I hate the attitude that single moms should only raise children until the kid goes to college and then can have a personal life - my son needs a happy mom and one who has balance.[/quote]

Here we see the infinite female capability to rationalize doing whatever she wants to do as being "good for the kuds". Disgusting![/quote]

I think that award goes to the PP who stated it was sexually repressive to not want to live with moms boyfriend.  Yes because that’s what every 12 year old wants, to be perfectly content knowing their mom is being adequately railed by her new man.  I’m the pp who’s mother abstained from having any relationships (that we knew about) as children.   Guess what we didn’t need growing up, some random inserting himself into our family dynamic.  My mom actually got married to her third husband about 8 years ago when my youngest sibling left for college.  We all have a good relationship with him and appreciate that he makes our mom happy.  What children don’t need is turbulence and big changes while growing up.  My mom’s first husband died in the iran-iraq war.  Her second husband (who she was matched with by family) was an abusive alcoholic.  She didn’t fantasize about being “swept off her feet” because she had already dealt with difficulties in life.  She worked two jobs and put herself through grad school to provide for us.  She did everything possible to ensure that we were always her first priority.  Incidentally, all three of her children ended up doing well and with stable families of their own without any major hang ups or issues and I personally attribute that to being my mom’s single most important priority as a kid.[/quote]

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