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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will drive my DD there, but do expect that she will be driven her home unless there is communication otherwise. Those of you who hire sitters should understand that my DD may consider herself "free" to babysit even though I may have other plans. I am not necessarily at your beckon call to come and retrieve [b]your employee [/b]when you happen to return home. I also always drove my sitters home when I hired them. If you want a sitter that you don't have to drive home, make sure they understand that or hire one that can drive. And NOTE once HS kids drive, they usually lose interest in babysitting so your best neighborhood sitters are in the 13-15 yrs old and you should plan on driving them. Otherwise, pay more and hire a college aged person or older. This and other issues provide a great opportunity for young teens to work on their communication skills. I've had to train my DD to ask what families who hire her how late they expect to be out. Sometimes I give her deadline, "my parents won't allow me to babysit past 11:00." She can also ask, "does my mom need to come and get me or will you drive me home"? [/quote] When did rides become the employer's responsibility? I drive my DD both ways because this is like any other jobs, the employee provides the ride. Plus, I know so many people who drink when they are out that I'd rather ensure the safety of my DD. If I had other plans and I knew the parents well, then I'd say to ask if they would drive her home. I'd view that as a favor to me and I'd only do it with families I knew would not drink and drive my kid. [/quote] Exactly.[/quote]
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