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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's my story.  My Mom was married 4 times.  She was still in her 4th marriage up until she passed away.  I know she would have stayed married to him as well.

My Mom and my Dad: Married at 21. My Dad was an a-hole.  Screaming and yelling constantly.  They divorced after 5 years when I was a year old.

My Mom and husband #2:  Her high school sweetheart.  He was maniac depressive and had serious OCD.  He stopped taking his meds and reverted back to how he used to be.  She separated from him in  hopes of him taking his meds again (kinda like I can't be with you unless you are healthy...she really loved him), but he passed away before they could get to that point.  They had one child together.

My Mom and husband #3:  She married him basically b/c she was looking for a father figure for my sister.  He was a nice enough guy, but about as bland as they come.  My Mom was very energetic and loved new experiences...but him not so much.  But she put that aside for the sake of my sister.  No connection between them. Nada.  My Mom eventually started losing weight for her health.  Apparently, my step father had a fetish for obese women.  They decided to go their separate ways.

My Mom and husband #4:  I had never seen my Mother so happy.  Seriously.  She was able to finally relax and start to become comfortable with herself.  She really met someone who she was going to be with forever.  Unfortunately, she passed away after only 6 years with him.  But she passed away happy and in love....something that she was searching her whole life for.

So, would I date someone who had been married 3 times?  Maybe. Sometimes what you think will work, doesn't.   What if it wasn't them that was the issue...what if it was the wife?  No harm in giving it a shot.  At least find out why he was married 3 times.

That said, I am married to my husband and do not plan on divorcing any time soon!  I know what it will do to the kids ;-)[/quote]

You know what a divorce would do to the kids???  Do you think that you or your sister would have been better off if mom had stayed with abusive screamer?  Or manic depressive off his meds?  What do you think THAT would do to the kids?[/quote]

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