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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. 
Thanks for all the kind thoughts!

My daughter does have a few kind and low-key friends and she plays a sport 3 days a week with a great group of girls.  They attend about a dozen different schools and there's no drama between them at all. 
And she has a sister and a brother and a pretty great home-life.  She'll be okay in the long run.

But geez.. the stuff that her "former BFF" is pulling.  Example:  my daughter, BFF and 2 friends texting about hanging out on Sat.  BFF calls the other 2 friends and invites them over and lies and tells them that my daughter is busy.  Ignores my daughter's texts.  
The next days she lies and tells my daughter that "she didn't see her texts about being available".  When clearly she did.

Just last year (5th grade) this girls and my daughter just had silly, goofy fun together--pretend play, making slime, cooking etc.  Now she's excluding my daughter and lying.  Give me strength.

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Omg get a life if your own.

You should be this involved in your daughters social life.[/quote]

NP. Stop with the "get your own life." If you can't understand a parent being sad that their child is hurting, that's kind of your own issue. And since when is knowing what is going on with your kids being "involved in your daughter's social life?"

Go away.[/quote]

No it's the knowing all the exact details of who did what and when and THEN REPORTING IT ALL HERE and it turns out they're all 12 years old. Get a freaking life! Your daughter will figure it out on her own and she'll be stronger for it. We all did.

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It is kind of weird to do this.[/quote]

Right, in the first post OP says both she and her DD know the friend is lying...why is OP inserting herself in middle school drama?[/quote]

OP here.  I'm not inserting myself into any drama.  I posting about it online because my daughter shares things with me.  
I don't interfere in real life--my daughter is the only one interacting with these friends and she is solving her own problems.  I'm a bystander to this.

But way to be a jerk here when my kid is struggling.  Does that make you feel better about  yourself?  
And we wonder why the girls are so mean. 
You post about kids struggling on here and grown adults women all over you and imply that you're an idiot.  [/quote]

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