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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Two thoughts:

Men are raped in prison every day. Society jokes about it. There are hundreds of posts right here on DCUM doing just that ("....once Manafort goes to prison and gets passed around in the showers, then it'll be justice"...). No one cares when men are raped in jail, it's all a big lulz.

What OP did wasn't especially noble or heroic. It was what should be the default-action of every person.

And the sad irony in all this is that the girl he rescued from a fate she was completely unaware of awaiting her, probably wouldn't give OP the time of day if they met several years later in a social encounter. She'd blow him off, as women do with most men who approach them.

Sorry you dealt with all that, OP. It sucks.

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Are you saying that the woman he saved owes him sex or a date as a reward for what he did? A lot of “nice guys” think that they are owed sex for being civil, and that kind of thinking is huge part of the problem! [/quote]

Did I SAY that???

No. I didn't. Stop imagining things to get pissed off about.

I merely said that it's likely this would-be victim he saved, like most women, is probably completely unaware of how many genuinely nice men are out there. But they're all under your radar because many of you spend so much of your energy either chasing, complaining about, or running away from the small percentage of men who are a-holes.

Stop seeking out things to be mad about. You're part of the problem.

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Nice guys don't say the things that you said.

Whether or not she would have slept with him at a later social encounter has nothing to do with the situation. I try to be a good person and I've helped out many men, but I don't go around thinking it's unjust that attractive, rich men aren't interested in me.

OP sounds like a genuinely good guy who did the right thing because she was a human in need, not because he thought it would boost his sex ranking. [/quote]

I never claimed to be a nice guy. I actually work at not being one, since nice is a default condition. You have to go against your nature to suppress it. I struggle to stay somewhere between nice and a-hole. It works out better that way, because many women simply do not want nice.  Marriage taught me that. Expensive lesson, but it's the only way nice men really learn this. [/quote]

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