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[quote=Anonymous][quote]As a single mom we’re i to say that I’d mean that I don’t want to step into a role of mom. That’s what I would mean by “raise his kids”- a man who sees his kids every other weekend isn’t raising his kids.
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I disagree.  The poster at 18:05 was very clear she did not want to date single dad but wanted (or had) a single man to date her while "understanding" about her love for her son. Sadly, this type of narcissism (i.e., she is about her needs and only her needs) is far from rare and men (both fathers and non-fathers) should avoid women like this at all costs.

Many single dads want to see their kids much more than every other weekend.  These dads go to every school/sports/extracurricular event they can and talk (or text, Skype, etc.) everyday.  They pay child support and as much more as they can afford for things their kids want (like camp) and need (like tutors).  Most single dads would fight like hell if their exDW told them that their kids' step-parent was the "dad" because he lived in the same house as she did.  If your ex had the kids with him full-time, would his new wife be their mom because they saw her more often?

You can be a single dad and still raise your kids with giving in to a sense a entitlement on the part of the other parent.  How many women would date a man who was looking for woman to help him raise his kids knowing he would never help raise theirs?
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