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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you do get involved with him don’t accept being last place. His kids will be a priority but you need to be one too.  The relationship between the two of you needs to be nurtured or it will be a disaster if he, the kids, in laws view you as last place. [/quote]

Um no you have to accept that you will be last place. No decent parent puts the new romantic partner in front of their kid. Ever. If you go into a relationship like this you shouldn’t be with someone who has kids.

You will be last place, always, and you will need to be ok hearing about the deceased wife and showing compassion. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, but going into it with an attitude that you will someone ever be equal to his kids is ridiculous. You can still have a wonderful relationship and lots of love without being first. [/quote]

My DH knows that our young kids are my #1 priority and he's fine with it as he feels the same way. We still have a very active love life and have quiet time together and it all works out. [/quote]

BS ! If your kids were your # 1 priority you wouldn’t have husband # 2 your actual priority is yourself and everyone else is just  a pawn for how they benefit you and your image your kids included.[/quote]

Wow- which of your bitch pills did you take this morning?[/quote]

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