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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Yes, I work. I'd miss the kids if DH took them, but would feel like a jerk keeping them from cousins and grandparents if I insisted they stay here (at least the oldest one). I do worry about safety with a large group and DH (who is a good guy) thinking someone else is keeping an eye on things. Nice to hear other people's experiences. Maybe we'll try having DH go by himself this year, then taking the oldest when they're 7 or 8.[/quote] He is their Father about time he stepped up. You need to trust him and even if you have reservations if you divorced or passed he’d be responsible for them without you. Best to learn when other family is around. Stop the mentality that your ways of parenting are best...he is going to resent the crap out of you if you try to control all things kid related and judge his parenting skills[/quote]
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