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[quote=Anonymous]OP, a few years ago, I was your girlfriend, except DH and I had been together nearly 10 years when my mind started to change about children. Before that, I could have been the poster child for “CFBC”. We had a wonderful life together, good careers, etc. and it all felt complete, until it didn’t. Age, hormones, therapyfor my own abusive childhood... who knows what triggered it, but thechange of Heart was real and not some “bait and switch”. DH still didn’t want children, and I had to make a choice over my known, real family I’d built over the years, or the unknown. I chose the real family. Some days it was like a knife to the chest, and I admit I cried myself to sleep on more than one occasion over what felt like a real loss.

But, I didn’t resent him, I was confident in the choice I had made.

Fast forward a few more years, and DH approaches me, wondering how I’d feel about having children. I was floaired, to say the least. But time sometimes changes you, or sometimes doesn’t. [/quote]

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