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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you want kids OP? Tell us. And tell her.

YOU need to tell HER why you do not want kids. Give her all of your reasons you do not want kids.

That should crystallize things for her very well. [/quote]

He doesn't owe anyone an explanation. People like you make people like us (CFBC) very reticent about sharing our anti-children viewpoints. You're not going to like what I have to say as a child-free person so why tell you? So that I'll get bingo-ed with a "Oh, you'll change your mind?"[/quote]

Lol are you really trying to acronym that?

NP. And yes, in this particular scenario that's the whole point. Obviously in a conversation between a parent and a "CFBC" person, if you start listing offensive-sounding reasons you don't want kids it's not surprising it could be taken the wrong way (ie as a personal attack) and result in defensiveness. In a conversation between a CFBC individual and a serious romantic partner, hearing all these specific reasons listed directly and point-blank will hopefully drive home the point that he really, absolutely does not want kids and will not "come around" or change his mind. Because yeah, they need to break up [/quote]

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