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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you post before? Someone posted about a paranoid DH who got an alarm system for the front door and turned it on remotely when she was in the house. [/quote] OP here. No, that was not me. We do have an alarm (with interior motion detectors), which makes this all the more ridiculous. I might have accepted the exterior cameras (recording, not alerting him) because they’d capture the face of anyone breaking in. Once they’re in, why do we need another video? The motion detectors would alert the alarm company. He has no real reason for the paranoia. Nothing remotely bad has ever happened to him or anyone in his family. [b]We have no kids, although we were letting nature take its course there. [/b] We are currently not speaking. I was visiting my parents for Labor Day weekend and expected he’d have taken care of the cameras while I was away. No luck. [/quote] DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN GET OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE - THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG. It is MUCH easier to get out, and QUICKLY without children! Even if the cameras come down - you have an entire lifetime to look forward to some other type of insane controlling behavior cropping up again in the future. How long have you been married? Could you imagine a man like this fighting over a child with you, and exposing the child to his irrational way of thinking with split custody and visitation? RUN.[/quote]
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