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[quote=Anonymous]I would tell him that his behavior is the same as an abuser and a predator.  The fact that he feels the need to monitor me is a huge red flag.  It is not that I have anything to hide, but I find his cameras invasive and creepy.  He can give me full access to the cameras so that I know exactly where they all are or I will move out and include his abusive behavior in any divorce discussions.

If he doesn't do so immediately, I will plan to move out.  If I can't move out immediately (or he agrees to remove them, but doesn't move them immediately) then I will start taping papers or hanging clothes/blankets over everyone that I pass.  If he removes the items blocking the cameras without taking down the cameras, I will paint the lenses over with black paint.

This is not a negotiable situation.  He is welcome to join me anytime he feels I am trying to hide something, but he doesn't get to set up cameras to monitor me or videotape me.

And, FYI, I am a husband, not a wife.  I don't believe there is anything defensible about his position at all.[/quote]

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