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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this is a money issue beyond the baby. You can spend and endless amount on kids, too, as well as vacations, decorating a home, cars, etc. You guys need to have a talk about budgeting and priorities. Have you ever met with a financial planner? Maybe now that you are starting a family you could get some professional advice on how much you should be saving vs. spending (and involving a professional saves you from being "the bad guy"). Then work out what your known, "fixed" expenses are (mortgage, utilities, groceries, etc) and then you will see what is left for other stuff. You guys will have to compromise and agree. [/quote] +1 Budget and money issue. Personal opinions on what baby needs and whether this is a worthy splurge aside, time to sit down with a counselor and figure out your outlooks on money and family finances.[/quote]
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