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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marriages work better with a division of responsibilities, when one partner stays home to manage the kids and the family life, and the other is the breadwinner.

Everyone would be happier in the end.
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Gee thanks Dr. Laura[/quote]

I believed this as well until I gave up my career to SAH for 12 years. He traveled so much that we became work and maids and no responsibility and lavish dinners and constant drinking was more fun. Everyone in his company/career in his role was divorced. He started drinking too much and became radically verbally abusive, and I kicked him out. Hes now "fun bobby" who pops into the kind lives every other weekend, and sends a check. I'm a million times happier, back to work and making a great living, and his shitty life management skills show clearly. He's going to crash, but when he does he can't take me down with himI have SO MUCH time in my day, even as a single working mom with three kids, because I'm not covering for, picking up, and obscuring the damage done by an alcoholic asshole child.

Leave, OP. Its so much better only running the life of one adult. I'm amazed when I meet competent men now, they awe me. [/quote]

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