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OP, are you sure you all love your house? I ask because we lived ina 1940's style house and it wore me out, speciffically all those freaking stairs. Also, it seems that you and your DH are very task driven. What is that you are so busy doing? Also, why do you view the "two hors trying to get the kids to bed" as a chore, v. "two hours I get to spend time with them"? Yes, everybody needs to get to bed but why is it a struggle? If there are behavior or medical issues, deal with them. If not, change your attitude. I've found it's the little things that make me happy, stuff like watching an event I care about on tv even if itmeans bedtime is delayed, or going for a walk. Also, it might help if your husband had more friends that have kids. I say that because if you hung out with all teachers, you'd start resenting that you didn't get a summer break while they did. We tend to want what we see those around us having, or at least what they tell us we have, or what we imagine they have. Have you asked him speciffically what he regrets? Any way he can get some of that back while including the kids? If not, why not?[/quote]

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