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[quote=Anonymous]You need to start running your life without his permission. Give him fair warning: “I am leaving with the kids at 7:45 am. I hope you are ready. If not, I am sure you can find a way to work.” Then you don’t remind him about the alarm, you don’t help him find his badge, you just so YOUR job of getting the kids ready and then you leave at the designated time as you said you would. “I am not okay with spending every weekend cleaning the house. Either you clean the following things this weekend while I watch the kids or we will have a cleaning aervice next weekend while you are gone.” Then you DO NOT CLEAN. And you book someone to clean if he has not done it. “I deserve time every weekend to relax. I have hired a sitter for Saturday from 1-6 and I will be out of the house then.”[/quote]
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