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[quote=Anonymous]I wonder if your husband is exhausted by the daily grind?  Job.  Chores.  Kids.  Bills.  Cooking.  Cleaning.  He's tired.  He's dropping the ball everywhere because he's tired.  He's letting you do most of the work because he can't do more than he's already doing.

Don't tell him you're hiring a housekeeper:  Just do it.  If he complains, tell him either he does the work, or he shuts up about it.  Tell him it's not fair that you're forced to do more than your fair share, and he has no say about it.  Not negotiable.

I'm not sure I would trust him with the kids based on what you've written.  He sounds like an accident waiting to happen.  Have him get the kids ready in the mornings, and you go in your own car to drop them off.  He can drive himself to his job.  How do you put up with returning home several times a week?  That's ridiculous.

I would stop counting on him based on what you've written.  You do what you need to do to keep things running, and stop trying to be a team with this man-baby.  He sounds hopeless.

I would keep the pets.  They're the sunshine in our lives.

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