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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.  I’m going to agree to it but 2 weeks is excessive in my opinion. I think there’s better uses for money but her dream trip is very important.[/quote]

WOW!...OP, really...let it go. Let. It. Go.

She getting the dream trip that he did not love you enough to give you when you were married. Or...you were never so "demanding"/"entitled"/"spoiled" when you were his wife, so it's not fair that he is putting up with these lavish/excessive expectations like this from her!!! --> This is how your heart is framing this for your brain to deal with. And it's not cool.

Try telling your brain to tell your heart this instead: Oh my gosh how WONDERFUL that my children's father has matured into such a loving husband that he wants nothing more than to fulfill his new bride's fantasy of an extravagant and romantic getaway! What a great example for my children to see of a loving, giving husband.

I know it's not fair that it's not you, OP. But please...don't take it out on the new bride for wanting (and getting) what she wants.
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